Do you worry about what others say negatively about you?

At the end of the day, what others say negatively about you wouldn't matter to people who truly know and love you.

At the end of the day, what others say negatively about you wouldn’t matter to people who truly know and love you.

Whether you like it or not, and whether they’re true or not, there are some people who will have negative things to say about you. In fact, sometimes it’s not about what you did or what you failed to do, but simply because it’s about you. Some people will just dislike you, for being yourself. While it can be depressing to hear negative comments, especially if they’re not true, you should keep in mind that even the ugliest things said about you will not matter to the people who truly know you and most of all, to the people who truly love and care for you. Those who really love you will accept you wholeheartedly and unconditionally. They accept your weaknesses, shortcomings, failures, and all. They will not conform to your wrongdoings but neither will they judge you. Perhaps, it is because they have also witnessed your pain, suffering, and hard work; they understand your reasons because they have seen your options. These people will be there for you to guide you, to comfort you, and to help you forgive yourself if you have done something wrong. They will defend you against other people’s malicious intents and will stand by you. You should be grateful for these people and show them your appreciation instead of worrying about those who do not like you. After all, at the end of the day, what’s important is the love and support given by your family and friends, and not the shallow, baseless, and senseless opinion of your detractors.

Do you worry about the negative comments you receive from others? Do you think they are even deserving of your time? Feel free to express your views on this. Write your comments below or answer comments of other subscribers.

8 Comments

  1. m. p. talreja December 10, 2015 11:57 am Reply

    I AM NEVER BOTHERED ABOUT ANY TYPE OF COMMENTS FROM OTHERS

  2. barrista December 10, 2015 5:20 pm Reply

    oh! yeah

  3. PatriciaJennings December 11, 2015 11:33 am Reply

    I am never bothered about negative comments because what people say about me is none of my business.

  4. Brian Sea December 24, 2015 3:59 am Reply

    How About This ~
    If You Have Nothing Good To Say Nerds, Then Shut The Fuck Up!

  5. gezahegncyahoocom January 10, 2016 2:36 pm Reply

    this is what any one should know!

  6. Latifa June 15, 2016 8:38 am Reply

    Hmmmmmm am touch I used to border about what peoples always say about me but now I have stop. I now know that that’s how human is know matter what u do they will talk about u

  7. Ibrahim September 1, 2016 8:47 am Reply

    Its good not to border abt what people say cos what you did they too wants to do the same its a mere jealous

  8. Sarah Ann Mazza October 1, 2017 5:03 pm Reply

    About maybe two years ago or so I actually did allow for the negative comments that two girls, Stacey and Melissa, had both sent me via Facebook Messenger bother me and I basically enabled these so called “friends” mean, hateful, negative and just vicious words get to me and for the longest time after these venemous conversations occurred I still allowed for these ugly witches meaningless words that totes contradicted everything both of them had ever said to me…it just broke me! My ?? heart ?? was broken by both Stacey and Melissa and their venomous words and their ugly feelings about the kind of person they said I was yet again all this contradicted the kind of person they made me out to be before these horrid messages they both sent me! All I wanted was to say goodbye to them and end that chapter of my life that they were a part of by just sending them one last message and then be done with them cuz they both have a fkd up definition of what a FRIEND is along with friendship ?

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