Whether you like it or not, and whether they’re true or not, there are some people who will have negative things to say about you. In fact, sometimes it’s not about what you did or what you failed to do, but simply because it’s about you. Some people will just dislike you, for being yourself. While it can be depressing to hear negative comments, especially if they’re not true, you should keep in mind that even the ugliest things said about you will not matter to the people who truly know you and most of all, to the people who truly love and care for you. Those who really love you will accept you wholeheartedly and unconditionally. They accept your weaknesses, shortcomings, failures, and all. They will not conform to your wrongdoings but neither will they judge you. Perhaps, it is because they have also witnessed your pain, suffering, and hard work; they understand your reasons because they have seen your options. These people will be there for you to guide you, to comfort you, and to help you forgive yourself if you have done something wrong. They will defend you against other people’s malicious intents and will stand by you. You should be grateful for these people and show them your appreciation instead of worrying about those who do not like you. After all, at the end of the day, what’s important is the love and support given by your family and friends, and not the shallow, baseless, and senseless opinion of your detractors.
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